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Thu, Sep 10
The tension between open-mindedness and standards is real but it is often presented as more binary than it actually is. Open-mindedness is most valuable in the areas of preferences and surface characteristics where your assumptions about what works for you may be unnecessarily narrow. Standards matter most in the areas of character, values, and fundamental compatibility where flexibility tends to produce the wrong outcomes. Being open to someone who does not fit your usual physical type or professional profile is reasonable. Being flexible about whether someone is honest, kind, and genuinely available for the relationship you want is where open-mindedness becomes self-abandonment. https://datewise.org/ helps you map your standards onto the right categories so that your open-mindedness expands your options in the areas where it actually helps and your non-negotiables hold firm in the areas where they actually matter for long-term happiness.
Tue, Sep 1
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